The cost of obedience is not only what we leave behind. Sometimes it is following God when we cannot see what our obedience accomplished. In Soul Weathered, I write about the cost of obedience. I talk about being abandoned to God. About following Him when following costs us something. About times when I have questioned Him, wrestled with Him, and found myself at odds with Him because what was happening didn't look anything like what I thought would happen. I wish I could say

Life is very full. We can organize it. Structure it. Schedule it. Arrange every minute of every day so that we can get everything done we think needs to be done. I remember as a young man in business carrying something called a Day-Timer. I tried to keep my life scheduled down to the hour. In my mind, success required organization. It required structure. It required me to stay on task. And that followed me for a lot of years. The problem was what happened when the schedule go

The enemy brings death and destruction, but Christ offers life. Embrace it and live fully! I don't talk a great deal in Soul Weathered about spiritual warfare, Satan, or the enemy. But that doesn't mean I don't believe it's real. We live in a world at war. Scripture tells us: “Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.”—1 Peter 5:8 That's a reality we shouldn't ignore. Over the years, I've spent a lot of time talking with men about s

Why the world needs the unique person God created you to be. One of the devotions in Soul Weathered is called A Role Only You Can Play. It's built on a truth that has shaped the way I've looked at people for years. Long before you were born... before anyone knew your name... before your parents held you... God knew you. He wasn't surprised by your personality. He wasn't surprised by your gifts. He wasn't surprised by your struggles. He designed you with intention. He created

Everything abandoned to God will be returned to us, either in this lifetime or in eternity. One of the devotions in Soul Weathered is called Abandoned to God. In it, I make a statement that someone recently asked me about. I wrote: "Everything abandoned to God will be returned to us, either in this lifetime or in eternity." Do I really believe that? Absolutely. Recently I had lunch with a friend I've known for several years. Twenty-six months ago, he made a decision that most

One of the things I hear most from men today is this: “I feel behind.” Behind financially. Behind spiritually. Behind professionally. They look around at other men and quietly wonder: Am I where I’m supposed to be by now? And the older I get, the more I question the timelines we’ve accepted. Because our culture has a script for men. In your 20s, you’re supposed to figure life out. In your 30s, build your career and family. In your 40s and 50s, accumulate and secure things. In

As I’ve been rereading parts of Soul Weathered, I’ve found myself unexpectedly convicted by my own words. That may sound strange coming from the author of the book, but the truth is, those devotions came out of decades of journals, reflections, failures, prayers, and moments where God met me in real life. When I started putting the book together, I had hundreds of pages I could have included. Narrowing it down to 52 devotionals honestly came down to trust. Trusting the Holy S

There’s a lot written about habits. Morning routines. Disciplines. The things successful men do to start their day. I understand the value in that. But what has shaped my life the most… isn’t a routine. It’s a posture. I wish I could tell you I practice it perfectly every day. I don’t. But it’s something I return to again and again. It starts with a picture. I see myself walking into a vast hall. High ceilings. Columns that seem to disappear into the distance. A space that fe

These weren’t polished sermons or big lessons—they were just me, trying to figure out life with God one step at a time.